WOW!! I am so sorry - my heart goes out to you. This is the first A for my H and I don't know if I am coming or going one minute to the next.
I would make sure he and the latest woman are no where near your child! I told my H that SHE is to be NO WHERE near the kids. The kids know about this (they are teens) as well. I actually found her on his IM and sent her a nice little message - told her to stay away or I will get a court order - she is also married (18 years) with 2 kids - so all this has effected 5 CHILDREN!
I am not sure how or why people do what they do!
Hang in there! Not sure how much advise I can give you since this is SO NEW to me!
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1