I love you luv... thought I'd just get that out of the way!
Thanks... everyone told me that I needed to get her to pursue... you know, like it was during the courtship before the M. I am working on it... time will tell.
Been jumping in and out of your thread... waiting for somethings to hit me right before I respond.
I am hurting with you abt what your H is doing... why can't our spouses just wake up and see...
I will tell you this much...... Gal'ing is great! If and when I get to Cali.... I am comin' to scoop ya.... I've been to LA several times when I was in my 20's. Got friends in Pasadena. I lived in Salinas (San City) for a spell (4 yrs).
Party every night on carmel beach just about. Take cessna flights to the Chic Pass mountains..... friend fliing the plane what a scare!
Had a bad wreck on a motorcycle on 580 going from San Jose to Sacremento. And for a long time, (in my heart) lived on the Donner Lake in Truckee. I have a very close friend that lives in Truckee to this day and often calls me to come out for a visit. Just have not found the time lately. That will need to change.
luv, have you seen "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey...
I loved that movie.
That's Gal'ing. Sayin' yes and just going and doing. When you do fun things for yourself, you find your laugh.... laughing will take you places.... promise! And it attracts people to you... opens up some opportunities for some very unforgetable moments.....
I wish all of the DB'ing folks were closer, or there was a chat board or something. It would be cool to talk in real time kinda sorta... of course, I am no typer so for me it would be delayed time!
But yeah... the tables did turn..... not like I expected them too but it is a start.... even if it is a nasty one.
But W is having difficult time with boundaries.... She will prob never understand... I am preparing for the D...
But hey luv, there is the Dodgers game.....!
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"