Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

CG - Interesting perspective on the home and the WAS. My brain couldn't put those two and two together probably since my bad times were never anywhere near as bad as hers. We work in buildings right next to each other...can throw a rock and hit her building. Lots of meetings together...probably 4 a week that we have to attend to together and just the way the seating is, I normally sit right across from W.

I don't know if it is a pro or con interacting on this different level. She has told me more than once that we work together well and at work we are a good team, but in the M not so much at all. So in her mind they are distinct and separate. I think she respects the heck out of me in a work environment, many times even after the bomb, she has told me and others that she knows of no one better at what we do...but again, that doesn't necessarily mean she respects me as a H.

Because we work together and she sees me so often, I wonder if that adds to her normal routine of secluding herself somewhere in the house after the kids go to bed (normally in the basement or in our bedroom with door shut).