Hope things are going well for you antlers. I am in the same point as you, tried to give my W time and "space", did everything I could to save the marriage, she just didnt want to take the time and make it work.
Do you have a sitch summary anywhere?
Hi man.
Things are a real pisser right now, but thanks. Sorry about your situation. It takes 2 to want it, and if 1 doesn't...there is NOTHING you can do except to start taking care of yourself better, and become a better person...for YOU! I'm presently fighting a war that NOBODY wins. I didn't want it, but it's what I got. The kids are innocent casualties.
I don't have a summary. Sorry. I've written a ton on this board.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.