You have mentioned several times that I am constantly 2x4'ing you. My intent is not to hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are wrong. You have lots of personal power and I would very much like it if you didn't take as long as I did to realize it. Is there a way I can better support you so you don't feel I am here to simply 2x4 you?
Sorry if my comments didn't come off as joking, as was my intention. I guess I feel some discomfort at being challenged (hence the joking), but I also need and welcome the feedback. I do feel supported by the comments from you and others. I'm here to make changes and that's not always comfortable.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
