It was even sadder that when she got up to leave, twice she said bye to our daughter and our daughter just hugged on me and ignored her. I knew after she walked out the door I should have gotten our daughter to tell her by but I sat and said nothign.
And here I am again feeling like crap. This sucks because I feel like I'm going to hurt no matter which way I behave toward my ex.
Oh, ok. So err on the side of "being rude and a complete dikk, and teaching my daughter to do the same" is what you decided to go with.