...I really appreciate you (Ready2Change) chiming in on these issues.
Glad I was able to help.
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Can I maintain a house/family/schedule/my sanity?
If I can, you can.
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But I'm going with "just facing what is in front of me right now." Tonight will be our last night together in my house but truthfully H left me months ago. He walked away in my mind the first time he was "with" OW.
HUGS
Tonight will be a great time to shine and show H what he is walking away from.
A happy, confident, and sexy woman. Project this.
Want an easy way to project happy? Right now, think about something in the past. Think about something that made you really happy. Let that thought bring a big smile to your face. You should feel that smile in your eyes. This is a real smile.
From now one, whenever you feel like smiling, think that same thought and smile.
Want an easy way to project confidence? Smile and maintain eye contact.
And last of all, you always have a choice how you perceive things. I want to strongly suggest that you enjoy tonight. Do not think about the past. Do not worry about the future. Be right in the moment. Enjoy being alive and in the presence of another human......
Remember that everything will be OK.
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712