He feels he isn't capable. He feels he is wrong no matter what he does.

You are asking him to step outside his comfort zone and he is terrified to fail.

So tell him things used to be good. Tell him he has succeeded before and can do so again. If you don't, he'll be too scared to step forward.

What do you have to lose?

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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