Hi Aver,

Originally Posted By: avermont


It is just so sad to be in a place where I am going to lawyers and talking trash about my X--talking about OW, and affairs, and moving into apts. out of vengeance! When did my perfectly quiet, respectable, decent, moral life become a trailer trash soap opera? This is so not us. So not me.



Yeah I know. It wasn't our choice but here we are, lives upside down. You are doing the right thing though. If you weren't standing up to him imagine how much worse your sitch would be.

I found an email H sent on Mon. in my spam folder, he wants to "Get together & talk this weekend!" That really sends me into the scary zone. After all this time too. Amazing the thought of talking affects me so badly still. And makes me feel naseous. If you're up to it A, feel free to stop by & weigh in. But no worries if not. Keep taking care of yourself. (((((hugs))))))