If you are asked, by two people whom you respect, I think you should tell them the truth. Don't embellish it, but don't hide from it, either. "I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but I respect you too much to ever lie to you" should be your position with your in-laws. I know it was with mine. Puppy
^^^Ditto^^^
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Just don't put anything in writing that could incriminate you, legally. Might want to run it by your atty first.
^^^Double Ditto^^^ Hmmm. Seems like I almost always follow Puppy with a simple "Bingo!" or "Ditto!", whenever I do chime in. Puppy, maybe you could just add "Gardener agrees." to all your posts, because I always do!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac