Doing my best, I think

[Bridgestone]

well hell..I'm not bashfull...

really? Damn.. just blew my virtual image of you..

letting her take care of some things and stand on her own two feet..does not mean you need to go back to be an ass..

agreed..

in fact.. you being 'all good' while she is learning to find a 'new normal' of standing on her own two feet might be the impetus she needs to reevaulate those 'dead feelings'.

so go be 'all good'- not as Tim- Mrs. Tim's new & improved husband, provider & protector. you've shown her that..

show her confident, GAL'ing, moving foward as Tim a single dad, show her that.. 'be' that.

and please reconsider only have the kids minimal time. She needs to understand.. truly understand the emptiness of a house without the presence of family, for extended periods of time.

Peace
Bridge