well hell..I'm not bashfull...I'll be the harsh one..
Tim-stop making this easy for her...a separation should not be easy for her..if anything it should light a fire under her ass...you should not have to do all the work..you should not have to list all the pros and cons..you should not take all the responsibility or accountability...
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letting her take care of some things and stand on her own two feet..does not mean you need to go back to be an ass..
sometimes I think this site does more harm than good....
