Dear Bill,
Just a thought - since this is route I'm going down-I was told you can do a S agrmt., which can be the basis for a dissolution (& maybe a D) -It spells out the terms for who lives where, finances etc. but if you decide to get back together can be voided. I THINK. Check with your L to see if this might be an option given your current sitch. It spells out the terms for who lives where, finances etc. Since your W seems uncertain about D, it may be a less "permanent" route while you both sort it out. But going from my memory, so ask your L.

I am sorry you're going through such a tough time. Wanted to send you my support & hugs. ((())))