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What I was trying to say is, that if you try to resist the mediation process then it will make her push harded for it. If she is not pushing it and there is no real reason to move forward with it then let it sit and do nothing. What is her last communication with you concerning the mediation process and when was it?


Okay I see what your are saying.

Her last communication around mediation was her responding to the mediators email asking us when we wanted to schedule the next session. This was her response on Jan. 19

Thank you John!
I'm ready whenever it's convenient.
CLV, have you looked at dates?

This was my resposne.
As far as the next meeting is concerned it will likely be in Feb. I'll get back to both of you regarding my availability once it becomes more clear.

She did mention getting the ball rolling on selling the house the following week. As I have said before she has not shown any sign of wavering in her decision. The whole mess is very discouraging.


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)