YOU : I told you I am not interacting with you with this is going on. I will make my own coffee thank you.
HUSBAND : I am not cheating. She's just a friend.
YOU say NOTHING.
You stand up and walk away withOUT looking at him.
HUSBAND follows you.
HUSBAND : She's just a friend. The kiss was nothing. You are overreacting.
YOU : Stay away from me and our children while you are with that person please. Do not talk to me.
HUSBAND : You are way too controlling.
YOU : If you continue to talk to me I will lock myself in my room.
YOu head for your room. Go IN, lock it, and do NOT come out while he's there.
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He KNOW's he's cheating, you don't need to argue the point... no one's being fooled here.
You sidestepped being critical and he WILL NOTICE that. You didn't raise your voice or challenge him or attack him. He WILL NOTICE that. You won't get a thank yo or even an acknowledgement, but he WILL see it trust me.
Just do your work. Read, intel. Contact OWH.
you can call someone on the phone even, but don't ENGAGE him. You can state your case, but sidestep the chance to ATTACK HIM at ALL COSTS ok?
You above have made your point and did NO DAMAGE. He WILL HEAR YOU .. trust me.
