Despite what they have, they still want more and they certainly don't want you to have anything. Jealousy is a big theme in the MLC scenario. My ex use to want me to succeed and have everything wonderful in life. Now he hopes I fail, lose the house, have bad relationships, etc... So hard to deal with..
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11