clv, Sorry, I might have been as clear as mud on my last post. What I was trying to say is, that if you try to resist the mediation process then it will make her push harded for it. If she is not pushing it and there is no real reason to move forward with it then let it sit and do nothing. What is her last communication with you concerning the mediation process and when was it?
With respect to the sexual addiction, I think it wears off, that is not to say that she does not enjoy it. Who doesn't it? Painful to say and hear. I think my wife was trying to make herself happy because her pain ran so deep. I don't think it will last, I think that eventually women do find that it is not as fulfilling as it was initially. I already see my wife dressing differently, more like she used to, more conservative and she is not straightening her hair or at least not in front of me. When she straightens her hair it is like she became this other person. I remember when we were together and she did that and we ML, she would say that "you probably feel like you are with a different woman".
Your wife has to do this thing herself, there is nothing we can do but sit back and watch lovingly from a distance.
On the MLC forum you have been in the resource threads right?
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