..it's tough we all have needs...I'm in a drought too...we have needs that we want met. It's normal I think. Very hard.
Indeed these can be tough, but if you feel your are 'missing' something or someone else will fill a need that you feel you can't, you are not in the proper place.
It's ironic that when we feel the neediest, the most lost, the most alone without someone, that is truly the time we need to be alone, to work on ourselves.
It is when we are strong, confident, and happy with ourselves that the best R can happen.
You'll get through these stages, it takes time. Be compassionate with yourself at these times, don't beat yourself up for feeling this way, but accept that you do, and look to what you can do on your own to help make yourself the best you, that you can be.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."