Thank you, and if my wife does go to jail i will not bail her out because your right: she will say anything and promise anything to get out.(also i just don't have the money), even if i had it i wouldn't bail her out. All of this is a hard thing to go through and to detach myself from her is hard but i getting there. To all of us there is alot of good advice here and i do thank all of you. Keep posting as we can help each other.
