I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[trytryagain]

sorry you didn't sleep well last night! 4 martinis did the trick for me. spending so much time with my sister is going to turn me into a lush! they were gooooood martinis, though!

i feel your dilemma! how DO you accomplish loving and tough? obviously, you want to save your M, but you don't want to get walked all over in the process! i wish i knew what to tell you, but i think that your gut and everything you've learned here will take over when the time comes. when it comes down to it, you have to do what is best for you. even if that means taking a step away from saving your M. will your M be better off if you compromised your values and goals in order to make it work? probably not. stay true to yourself. meditate on the positive changes you have made and let that be your focus today, instead of treading water in those crabby, sulky feelings.

hope your meet up group is better than mine. that's where i found my divorce support group, which i left feeling like i needed to join a support group for victims of support groups!

like you told me...let go and let your faith guide you!!!