He said he is done!!

[lostnotgone]

I am not going to file today - but I need to ensure that the children are taken care of - so true that I am HISSED off right now - cool off period is needed.

If NOTHING else comes of it, cooling off will allow you to focus.

I liked to go the other (low road) for along time. Show my a$$, make remarks, be hissed - it's a wonder i ever was able to 180 after I found out @ my W's A. But I did and things were looking up for ME, before she came back and we began piecing.

I go back and forth in my head - my head and my heart are not talkinig the same language right now. How did you do it ? even if my H and I do not get back together we still have to be friends for the kids sake. How do you forgive or trust again ?