So you are in agreement with the others? The 180 being it is the opposite of what my W may think I would do or the opposite of what I don't want to happen the D?
I like you have been toggling back and forth between Midlife and this forum. I'll be following and post their as well.
You made and interesting observation about you W being addicted to sex. Based on what I have uncovered snooping through my W's phone ect. I am of the same opinion with regard to my W. It's ironic that prior to her losing 65+ lbs. getting botox injections, sculptra injections, new wardrobe etc. etc. she was pretty much uninterested in sex. Her self esteem was very low but when she dropped the weight etc. her self esteem came back and apparently her sex drive. Problem is she directed it out of our marriage and here we are.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)