Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Citygirl
All valid points. I have worked on me. I am 10x the father I used to be and in fact shoulder most of the load, I have gotten over many insecurities in dealing with R and emotions and things like that, and I have read more than a handful of self-help, R, etc kinds of books. I would like to start IC to see what is the next step, but need to see if I am going to be moving in a few weeks or if I have some time left here.

Have I concentrated a lot on me lately - no not in the last few days to a week - other than reading.