I am so very, very sorry to hear about your dog.

What work have you done on you?

Each post you make is all about your W, what she does, what she doesn't do, possible reasons for her action or lack of action, what she might or might not be thinking and what any sort of movement could indicate.

With all due respect it is nothing more than a tremendous waste of energy. IMO the more clues you search for the less you will find. Things become very clear when you take a step back.