K, we already knew that. He is under a lot of pressure from you, the C, himself, his family, work, etc etc etc. He doesn't act when he is under pressure - look at how long other steps took him.

I don't know about you, but none of that is news to me.

It's how he feels. It's real to him.

Is there a way you can show him that you are interested in him, that you really want to make things work without undoing some of the work you guys have done in MC?

Maybe phrasing is important. Instead of "I will not be making any more MC appts" instead "I want you to be in charge of making the MC appointments. I need you to be responsible for that part of our R."


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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