Think of this... I see you as THE ROCK of the family, perhaps a really NICE rock, but a strong one nonetheless. The GOTO man!
Maintain that healthy presence for all right now, but try not to get caught up in intentional and/or W's issues situational drama. (wonder if that came out right?)
They may need you to be the one to help w/Grandson. Nothing wrong with that. Does that change W's return home?
Random question - is W's delay to come home because of cost due to your cutting off her spending $? How much can a flight be, for crying out loud?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
