Originally Posted By: nikblondiew
I plan to go for sole custody. I don't know much about how that works, as it's my first time, and don't know too many divorced. With sole custody does that mean every other weekend he'd have him?

I completely agree with you searching.......I told him and his mother that. What is he thinking? Priorities are messed.

I printed off the divorce paperwork and will go in search of a good lawyer locally.


Custody rules and visitation vary greatly State by State. You're right you need a lawyer and the sooner the better. I would think that most States would be favorable to a petition for at least your temporary sole custody with supervised visitation for your H based soley on who he is keeping company with. Take whatever proof you have with you to the lawyer to justify your case and best of luck.