Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

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You could learn a lot about getting along together by attending a Retrouvaille weekend. They are listed on the website, www.helpourmarriage.org. You wouldn't believe how much can change when people who have reconciled themselves teach the two of you how to do it. It completely changed my marriage from an unhappy marriage where I thought I married the wrong person, to a very happy one, where we are good friends and lovers again.

i would be SO interested in doing this with my H. but i think both partners have to be fully committed to working things out, and we're not there yet. and we may never be. but. it's good to know that it's worked so well for other people!