Hadn't thought of checking myself if W actually filed. Couldn't find anything on net. Had my business lawyer [and personal friend] check. It's not his specialty. An hour later he let me know, nothing yet. Says his info is, should take no more than 10 days to 2 weeks to get served, from when her lawyer files it with court clerk. 3 weeks would be very unusual. From when W left, two more days will be 3 weeks!
So question there still open for now. Her lawyer has been our family lawyer, and friend, for years. Guess it could be possible he could have hesitated filing, to see if there might be a change of mind! Or waiting for a final OK from W to file. Who knows?!
W called 3 more times this morning, no mess. Didn't answer. Felt the anger I was feeling wouldn't leave a good outcome. After I felt I could control it, I called. Grandson's mother is having problems. Possible I may need to pick him up sooner so his mother can take care of personal problems. As soon as W gave me needed info, I asked, "Anything else, I'm running behind today." W="Well, I guess not."
Cleaned up loose papers near the computer this morning. W always doodles on paper when on the phone. Writes her name in diff script, thoughts in her mind, etc. For some time I have noticed she has wrote her name with her maiden, instead of married. Ran across one that used her married a dozen times, and a thought she had written. "Why is everyone telling me I'm wrong? Will have to pray before I get there." Real thoughts? Or intentionally left to be found?
Lot of diff ways I could take that. But feel more need to get control of my own feelings right now. Finish a workable, ajust as needed, plan to go forward with what 'I' need.
Will try to check out FB this eve. On cell now, what a pain. Lot to think about right now. D21 left couple messages, she needs to talk to me? Will have to deal with that, see what's up. She usually sends text when at work, so I know 'somethings up'!
