That's the funny thing. It is my nature to be fair and reasonable. If it weren't ---- I would have taken out an ad in the local newspaper, branded him as an adulterer and taken him for all he/we have 2 years ago. Well, fair and reasonable ---- and still in love with him.

H has accused me many times of doing/saying/thinking things that I haven't. I am sure he will agree to anything I ask for to be done. He responded to one of those emotional e-mails two weeks ago by telling me that he still cared for me, just doesn't want to be married to me----and that he would prove to me that he still cares. I asked if he thought he would be proving that to me in the form of a finanicial settlement----as if that was what I wanted?? But I am sure in the end he will be totally convinced that I am unfair and unreasonable. I am also sure the only way he would be happy with me is if I weren't breathing.


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12