I don't think this woman has enough character to be haunted.

Remember--she gave this house address to the bank! So--making this up in my own head, the scenario went something like this:

X: here, honey, here's the local bank to set up your account.
OW: what address should I give?
X: I told Avermont to move to the apartment half of the house. I'm sure she will, and we'll be all moved in by the end of October. Just use the house address!
OW: Sounds great!

No, I do not credit her with having enough sensitivity to be haunted.

This woman "fake makes out" (as I have described) with a married man--the friends she was staying with, in FRONT of her lover (my X) and his partner (me). Not once, but twice.

So I don't think we should credit her with the moral compass of a grape.

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Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process