Just checked our bill, yeah there still texting. UNREAL! Tells me everything I need to know. This chick has 5 felons, going to prison in a few months for 4.5 years, terroristic threats, we have a child here idiot!!!! WOW!
If this is true, then you should file for sole custody now and insist your H only have supervised visits with your son until he can concretely prove this OW is completely out of the picture. There is no way a 5 time convicted felon with an upcoming prison term should be anywhere near your son IMO.
Sorry for what you have had to deal with - stay strong. The healthy thing for you here is separation from this storm right now.