gima, You are doing great! The way you handle yourself in those situations, really defines who you are as a man and a Father. Your children will definately remember how you handled yourself in those situations. They will remember a strong, confident, Father. I'm proud of you! Stay strong my friend.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
Feeling better this week. Want to keep a PMA. Still don't feel like talking to W. Too much hurt, anger.
I have a C session tomorrow. New C. Nothing wrong with the old one, but he was across town and not covered byhealth insurance. New one is closer and is covered. Looking forward to the C session.
Gonna put my head down today and work, work, work.
I'm with you on getting the anger out. The treadmill is a good place to work through some things.
Personally, I'm just tired. Tired of this whole thing and want to take a break from it. I commend you for finding the energy and not just crawling in a hole somewhere.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
Personally, I'm just tired. Tired of this whole thing and want to take a break from it. I commend you for finding the energy and not just crawling in a hole somewhere.
Yes, me too. But, I will have time to rest after this is all done.
Have a C appointment with a new C today - actually the one who was going to be our MC until W decided she never said she would go to MC for reconciliation. Looking forward to it. And I need it.
I have noticed from our financial records, W returned to a C (don't know who) in mid-December, which would have been right after we had the talk where she said she never agreed to go to MC for reconciliation.
I am trying to focus on me and the kids now. Sad that W is not a part of my future, at least not in a positive way. But, that is her choice. I have a life to reclaim and live. And I plan on doing just that.
You are on the right path. But also realize that you are never going to be done. Don't let what I am saying change anything you are doing. Just keep it in the deep recesses of your mind
You are on the right path. But also realize that you are never going to be done. Don't let what I am saying change anything you are doing. Just keep it in the deep recesses of your mind
I'm with you OP. I know, b/c we have two wonderful children together, W will never totally be out of my life. We may not be M'd to each other soon, but we will always be our childrens' parents.
