Back here, for the second time... #69

[kat727]

I have a feeling you will throw something at me if I ask but,...have you asked him what steps HE thinks he needs to take to get your marriage back on track? this would have to be put out there with you listening and not arguing a point but creating an enviroment where he knows and feels that he will be heard.

He has withdrawn into a shell, afraid to say or do anything because it may be the wrong thing. I don't admire his position and feel he brought this on himself but perhaps the above will help.

I am truly hoping you get everything that you so richly desire and deserve.

hugs, kat