Sounds to me like there's another woman, and she kicked him to the curb, but then they made up. Sorry to say, but it sounds like you're "Plan B" at the moment.
Puppy
^^^^ I AGREE^^^^^^^
Sorry - I've been there and done that.
Yes- friends will lie for friends, or hide for friends or enable friends.
Yes - a cheating Spouse get's depressed and flounders when the affair is ended by OM/OW. It's achemical withdrawl.
See it's like " Now What" - He's invested some effort, feelings, time and turned away from his W only to get kicked to the curb.
Boom - He get's BOMBED. He's disoriented and conflicted especially since he can't start telling the truth now. Because if you dump him where will he go?
Maybe not- But very likely scenerio and I've been thru something similar and if you've been around the board you'll find other's that have been thru it also.
It is worth investigating it.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
