Puppy,
I totally agree, my self-esteem is shot, especially since I exposed the affair. I'm going to work on being a friend WITH boundaries.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10