Pearl, X and I worked on this house together. Not as much as LFA and her X, but a lot. Building, painting, building porch, re-siding, basement work--the house was improved immeasurably out of our love for each other and life together.
So to just hand it over to OW--it's killer. I know many people here have been through this, and survived.
But goddarn it, for her to move her clothes into my closet that I built; brush her teeth in the bathroom that I helped design and put together--I just can't take that pain right now.
Avermont, Maybe think of it this way... if I were OW (god forbid!) I'd think that the house would be haunted of memories of you. Every part of the house has your touch on it, and memories of you in every corner. Wouldn't that be incredibly uncomfortable for her? She'd be competing with your memory.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
