The rejection from my H is what is so hard. For 16 years he had always been the caring, I love you, touchy feely person in our M. I was always the cold; don't have time, not now wife. Now the tables have turned, and I know how he has felt for so many years. However, I feel like I'm being so desperate and emotional, which is not me that was always him. So some of my 180's are to be more affectionate, but I think that is coming across as pursing him. This whole thing just sucks!!!!!!


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10