Side note - in my last post I wanted to clarify I think understanding him makes sense and is admirable. Trying to see what can be done is super, too. You aren't a year into a seperation, just a few days. Just don't make it your life.
OTM- do you mean don't try to make understanding him my life? or don't make separation my life? i guess the answer is probably both.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless