went to the lawyers with my s15, D12. They stated in sworn affidavt that they wish to spend 50/50 time with both me and w. They do not want only everyother weekend with dad. That this 50/50 was never presented to them.
This will definitely be a fair compromise with me. It's the right thing to do. I also received some favorable info regarding child support. W believes she will get the total amt from me when we D. If it is 50/50 shared custody, that will not be the case. Both w and I are similar in salary.
I am always stunned at how ill-prepared waywards are, considering they've been fantasizing, scheming and planning, typically, for 6 months or more before they try to exit the marriage.
My wife threw around the threat of divorce multiple times after I busted her on her affair. By the time I responded and filed in order to protect myself, she hadn't even BEGUN the process of selecting an attorney, and I found notes that indicated that she was GOING THRU THE PHONE BOOK and doing INTERNET SEARCHES, just picking names out of a hat. Also had a client of hers recommend someone who wasn't even a family law attorney, and my wife actually took an appt. with this person and was leaning that way at first. She did eventually get a real sharp shark, but it took awhile.
In fact, we were more than two months into it and she didn't even know that legal S wasn't even an option in our state!!!
I'm glad you are sticking up for yourself, DDogs. Stay the course.
