Trapt,
You are right, it has been traumatic for them to say the least. It has been difficult to keep them removed when Mom has lied so much to both of them. I am not blaming her or even mad at her it is what is. She is just out of the picture and it is very difficult for S9 to deal with, he is also experiencing withdrawl much like I did over Christmas when I saw her often. I got addicted to her presence and had done some damage to the detatchment I had done for myself, I ended up having a couple of bad days as a result.

My S9 spent the night and all day with her yesterday and by the evening when it was time to come home it hit him hard. I am glad the mother/child bond is mending though.


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison