feel like giving up - talk to me!

[DDogs]

Luv. Just my input. If the h is seeking out your friends, he may be attempting to spin his side of the story to your frends. This may feel to him that he is rationalizing and justifying what he's doing.

I would expect to hear from your friend all of the "bad" that has been done to him by you and also how "terrible" a person you are. My assumption is that it's all fluff to make him look good.