What has helped me immensely is having more understanding that what my H is dealing with is not about me.
How do you get to this point? I know that I believe that this is all on him. My brain tells me this is true, but my heart can't let go of the fact that he's able to turn his back on me and walk away from what we had for so many years. It is hard to believe that this isn't about me. Given the fact that I've failed miserably with DB, I believe more and more that my failure with this makes this my fault.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
