Trying LRT - Please Help!

[motherof3]

On the financial front, are you keeping a close eye on the money? Do you have joint accounts or are the finances separate?

Yes, I am keeping a close eye on the money. At least the money I have access to. At the time H moved out he setup his own checking account. I don’t have access to this and have no idea what is going in and out of that account. I can only guesstimate what income he brings in every month as it varies since he is in sales (base plus commission).

I handle all joint accounts, including checking, savings, credit cards, etc. He hasn’t touched them since he moved out. I also pay all of the household bills. Each month he gives me a check to cover ½ of the daycare costs plus $500 to help make ends meet.

You're on my prayer list.

Thanks GIMA.

A good cry, huh? Mine are daily!!! I'm proud of you for being able to control your emotions.

Daily? I would have never guessed. (((Mindfull)))

It is a wonder how he's able to finance everything!!!

IDK. Maybe a yearend bonus? Good sales this month? Credit cards? Mommy & Daddy?

Who is he skiing with?

Not 100% sure. The only reason I found out is because a mutual friend of ours (male) was invited to go. His wife told me about the plans. Unfortunately he is not going to be able to make the trip.

Flow – Thanks for the comments. I take some comfort in knowing that others can relate to how I feel. (((Flowmom)))