OP, It was actually one of your posts that I got to Hearts Blessing posting on the stages of MLC. I have been lurking all over the boards and in the archives of MLC. Not sure where she is at but I will say this, I was talking to my W last night not the alien.
I am not sure but I think she is attempting some reconection with the kids which would be in the last stage if memory serves me correctly, I know she is not in that stage but as you said she is probably moving around. Whatever the case, I will take it, write it down and continue to watch from a loving distance.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.