Jan 13 Joint MC session and give back ring tell her I’m done.
I don’t think I did a good job of being done, I did get her attention and she mentioned it again tonight.
I did something similar as well. It's controlling unless you truly mean it.
When you're done you're done, nothing more.
Quote:
W: I want to come back to him and D13, but you make me look like the bad guy when you pray for me to come home every night. M: S9 prays for you to come home, not me. W: Still you make me look like the bad guy.
Praying is good.....Pray for the right things and the right reasons. If she is aware of all this praying for her return, it some how is being brought to her attention which shouldn't be happening.
Guilt will drive her further away.
Your w seems to be aware of her issues, most mlc'ers suffer from a huge amount of denial, however her actions must match her words. If that is not happening, I would suggest taking a few steps back.
Your children seem to be way caught up in all this. They need age appropriate answers and nothing more.
