Originally Posted By: talia
You will find that dark/ no contact will actually feel better for this.


Isn't going 'dark' a last resort? They've only just become separated. Yes, she needs to focus on herself and be strong - both of which can help her and her M. Being alone can drive her H to other women just as much as it can drive him toward her.

Just think, TTA, while it felt weird, you are starting to see other men differently. Wouldn't your H do that too if he feels that you have written him out of your life?