Originally Posted By: are you kidding
I just wasn't going to be intimidated. Why can't I be that way with wife?


Seriously?


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Got to thinking on this divorce, I've let my wife know alittle too much,now any day now she's going to get the motion on selling the house, which between us, I'll live in a tent before the kids loose the house, even though that might get wife away from the om (neighbor):)

I've given her bits and pieces on what's in the motion.Why don't others see it?


Think all you want, we all have told you numerous times to stop being so open with her about this. When will YOUR thoughts match YOUR actions??
Why don't others see it?

I'd be more worried about what you need to fix for you.


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do you really think I plan to be impulsive?


Do you really want the answer to this?

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It's funny when your successful no one gives a dang how you act, be crushed and they pile on, like I didn't already feel bad enough about myself.


All depends on how a person defines success. Feeling bad will not change a thing.

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Texted wife too many times today


OK.



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Told her we can get Divorce final we have court next week, she didn't know anything about it.

Told her I had filed a motion, did not mention the house part and yes I bold faced lied on some of what was in the motion.
Told her motion included parenting,counseling,communication between us. She told me to save the money, that we communicate fine, my gut told me she and D are nervous.


Your words just a moment ago....

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Got to thinking on this divorce, I've let my wife know alittle too much


What's going on here?


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ALL THIS BS I've been typing, boils down to this, I want to stay married, I love my wife, I want to take all the pain away and if she was sane we wouldn't be in this boat.


This isn't all about her ya know.


Don't stand still.