just not so sure where she is now but I think my treatment is the same no matter what, it just helps me with the patience thing if I know or can make an educated guess.
If she is in replay, withdrawl, or depression understand that the stages don't go in order, can repeat themselves and in general make no sense as far as a time line. It does sound like she is in MLC with depression and childhood issues with her father.
Welcome to this board the place nobody wants to be. But there are wonderful people here and we can try to help you on your journey as we take our own trips down the MLC tunnel.
I assume you have read the resources, try to read the whole thread not just the main parts. There are many interesting comments by other people on these threads.
