Tom, Let me be the first of many to wish you a Happy Birthday!!! I try to find the positives in everything and it can be the smallest thing, getting the seat you want on the train, your morning coffee is just right today, or something your kids say to you that makes your heart melt and you remember why you stay strong and endure in this nightmare. I promise you it will get better and I believe you can make it work with your wife. With time and space the fog will lift and it does, she will notice the what a wonderful man you are.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
